Our sweet dog Molly deals with a host of anxieties: storms, fireworks, other dogs, bicycles, trailers, car rides, groomer and vet visits, etc. The good news: What can’t be avoided can be managed. Communication is a big part of it.

When this photo was taken, she was freshly groomed and knew we were going home. Before we even left home, though, I had pictured her calmly riding in the back seat and me walking her into the shop. I pictured her standing strong while her longtime groomer bathed, rinsed and trimmed her long hair, and her feeling more comfortable as a result. I pictured us going home and walking in the door.  

“Maybe you’ll even see Aunt Jody,” I’d told her as we set out. Molly’s ears perked up at her much-loved dog sitter’s name.

The key: I pictured Molly coping despite being afraid. I reminded her I wouldn’t take her anywhere that wasn’t safe.

Was she still anxious and wanting to have the whole thing over with? Yes. Did she have that panicked, betrayed reaction we’ve all seen when animals don’t understand what’s happening? No.

Unavoidable challenges can be great opportunities to build your animal’s confidence and trust. Whether he struggles with nail trims, hoof work, trailering or separation anxiety, animal communication — your own and/or with help from me — eases the way for both of you. Your farrier, vet, sitter or other carer will appreciate it, too!